After I posted my last post I had to come back to my faithful key board because I can almost hear you wondering…
When I went home to seek resolution with my parents a few years ago, my step-father was remorseful and changed…
So WHY did I !BLAM! him as well?
I want to pause from my ongoing story to point out a couple things…
I have experienced two DIFFERENT reactions from my parents since the !BLAM!.
One positive and one negative.
I share to encourage others…
I share to say I understand…
Continuing from yesterday…with “the more”…
My step-father had surgery scheduled to have cancer removed from his lung. It was supposed to be sometime in the next few weeks. However the hospital had an opening and my step-father elected to go in earlier.
I did not receive a call.
(more…)
What began as a drop, picking up my phone and !BLAM!ming my parents, has spread in ever expanding ripples in wonderful ways. Ways I never would have predicted. The freedom and healing I’m experiencing has taken me by surprise.
Christmas bells are ringing, for me!
It’s been a week and two days since I called my parents and !BLAM!ed them. (click here for video) I took control of my life. Stood up, as an adult and said, “Wait just a minute here…” and the results are continuing to be astounding. Since I hung up it’s been a new experience. My healing has taken off at warp speed. Even John1 mentioned it today…
Quick note, my parents weren’t aware that I was going to be calling and !BLAM!ming. That was a “cold call”. They also didn’t know that we were filming. (re-posted video at bottom)
Thoughts since the !BLAM!…
A great metaphor for the forgotten child.
!BLAM!ming my parents was one of the best things I’ve ever done. I feel so different inside. I’m experiencing transformation daily. I let my parents know that I was a forgotten child in all their violence, drama, and destruction. And I did it calmly. No screaming, no yelling, no my parents yelling back… I let them know in a controlled, clear adult manner that what they did effected me. That I’ve never stood up and said. I had always (more…)
Continued…
Who knew that the project/business John1 and I started in August was going to go in the direction it has? Not me. Not him. This is truly an organic process. We followed a white rabbit and the hole keeps getting deeper, a little unnerving even, but we’re determined to keep up…
Here’s the end at the beginning…
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