CONTINUED:
Honestly I don’t think my step-father processed that by him asking me to call my mother…he was asking me to “fix something that I had done wrong”. But that’s what was happening. And that’s exactly the power play I think she had been trying to create. I’m positive that after I called/!BLAM!med there was hell to pay coming from her. She has NEVER admitted that she ever did a thing to feel sorry for. I know for a fact that she had pressed, pushed, insulted, and degraded him all the years they have been married, making him wrong for all the problems. She was doing it when I was living at home, I’ve seen it since.
Part 2, Let’s Start with Monday. . . my mother the bully . . . January 2, 2010
Growing Up The Child Inside . . . December 29, 2009
Einstein:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
For years I’ve pretty much been doing the same thing over and over again with my parents and expecting different results. !BLAM!ming them was doing something different.
By not ever dealing honestly, openly, and calmly with the past and being straight up with them I swept everything under the carpet. The result was I continued to get walked on and (more…)
A near miss on overcoming worthlessness yesterday . . . December 16, 2009
After posting I’ve decided to add this story. It happened yesterday. Since I was on the topic of detecting and overcoming worthlessness I thought I really should begin to include stories regarding this matter. That will show my struggle. Show the difficulty I’m having healing a relationship with a child I have hurt and may assist you if you’re in the same boat…
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