Since I’ve !BLAM!med my parents I’ve been open to a lot of new things I didn’t see before.
My coach has been able to take me to new levels.
I’ve come to see new things.
And I’m thankful.
Pandora Boxes . . . January 8, 2010
I do not BLAME my parents, I !BLAM! them. . . January 7, 2010
As I gave thought to my last post I think it’s also very important that I also say:
I would like to make it clear to everyone who reads my blog that I’m not “blaming” my parent for my issues. But I do !BLAM! them for their personal-living-hell they dumped on me when I was an innocent child. Again, to !BLAM! is NOT to blame.
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You may be wondering . . . January 6, 2010
After I posted my last post I had to come back to my faithful key board because I can almost hear you wondering…
When I went home to seek resolution with my parents a few years ago, my step-father was remorseful and changed…
So WHY did I !BLAM! him as well?
I have received 2 different reactions from my parents from !BALM!ming them. . . January 6, 2010
I want to pause from my ongoing story to point out a couple things…
I have experienced two DIFFERENT reactions from my parents since the !BLAM!.
One positive and one negative.
I share to encourage others…
I share to say I understand…
Growing Up The Child Inside . . . December 29, 2009
Einstein:
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
For years I’ve pretty much been doing the same thing over and over again with my parents and expecting different results. !BLAM!ming them was doing something different.
By not ever dealing honestly, openly, and calmly with the past and being straight up with them I swept everything under the carpet. The result was I continued to get walked on and (more…)
Part 2, “The more” of the results of the !BLAM!mig . . . December 28, 2009
Continuing from yesterday…with “the more”…
My step-father had surgery scheduled to have cancer removed from his lung. It was supposed to be sometime in the next few weeks. However the hospital had an opening and my step-father elected to go in earlier.
I did not receive a call.
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What is !BLAM! anyway???? December 22, 2009
It occurred to me that I haven’t defined !BLAM! yet. Since this is sooooo important, I am dedicating this (more…)